noun General Slang

Dom / Domme

· noun · kink

The dominant partner — the one holding psychological control. Domme is the feminine form.

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The Dom is the one in charge — the partner exercising psychological authority and control in a power dynamic. This is about headspace and command, not who's physically doing what (that's Top/Bottom). 'Domme' is the feminine spelling, pronounced the same, used to flag a woman in the role. Short for dominant.

“She's a strict Domme — the control is all in how she talks to you, she barely needs to lift a finger.”
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Dom / Domme In A Sentence

She's a strict Domme — the control is all in how she talks to you, she barely needs to lift a finger.

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What's the difference between a Dom and a Top?

A Dom holds psychological control; a Top performs the physical action of a scene. Often the same person, but not always.

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