Tag

#leather

68 words tagged “leather”

RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink)
noun (acronym)

Consent framework that's honest about risk: nothing is 100% safe, so know the danger and choose it anyway.

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Handkerchief code 18+
noun

Mature content — open to view.

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Brown hanky 18+
noun

Mature content — open to view.

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Pony play 18+
noun

Mature content — open to view.

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Rope bunny
noun

A bottom who loves being tied, relishes the surrender and the held tension of rope.

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Topspace
noun

The euphoric flow-state a dominant can enter while running a scene.

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Sub drop
phrase

The physical and emotional crash a bottom can hit after an intense scene.

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Aftercare
noun

The post-scene wind-down — comfort, reconnection, and checking in once play ends.

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Total Power Exchange (TPE)
phrase

A dynamic where the dominant holds complete authority, 24/7, across the whole relationship.

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Flogging
noun / verb

Striking a bottom with a multi-tailed whip called a flogger.

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Play
noun

Doing BDSM together — the community's catch-all verb for engaging in kink.

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Hard limit
phrase

A line you will not cross, full stop — non-negotiable.

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Light blue hanky 18+
noun

Mature content — open to view.

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Soft limit
phrase

A 'maybe, with the right person and the right setup' — a flexible boundary.

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Sub / submissive
noun

The partner who hands over control to a dominant for an agreed period.

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CBT (cock and ball torture) 18+
noun

Mature content — open to view.

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Impact play
noun

Kink built on striking the body, hands, paddles, floggers, crops, canes.

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Collar / collaring
noun

The symbol of ownership in D/s — and the ceremony of accepting a submissive's service.

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Mr. Drummer
noun

The fetish-leaning leather title contest tied to Drummer magazine, run annually in San Francisco from 1981.

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Fisting 18+
noun

Mature content — open to view.

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Black hanky 18+
noun

Mature content — open to view.

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Leather pride flag
noun

Black-and-blue striped flag with a white centre stripe and red heart, designed by Tony DeBlase, debuted at IML 1989.

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International Mr. Leather (IML)
noun

The premier leather title contest — founded by Chuck Renslow in Chicago, 1979.

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Yellow hanky 18+
noun

Mature content — open to view.

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Hogtie
noun / verb

Binding the wrists and ankles together behind the back.

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Handler 18+
noun

Mature content — open to view.

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Grey hanky 18+
noun

Mature content — open to view.

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WIITWD (What It Is That We Do)
noun (acronym)

Catch-all the kink scene uses for everything it gets up to, when 'BDSM' is too narrow.

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Boy
noun

The submissive or junior role in leather hierarchy — about rank, not literal age.

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Flagging 18+
verb

Mature content — open to view.

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Edgeplay
noun

Higher-risk kink, breath, blood, knives, where the 'edge' is real and self-defined.

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Dom / Domme
noun

The dominant partner — the one holding psychological control. Domme is the feminine form.

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Figging 18+
noun / verb

Mature content — open to view.

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Topping from the bottom
phrase

When the Bottom tries to steer the scene against the agreed power dynamic.

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Daddy / Leather Daddy
noun

The older, dominant, mentoring leather archetype — with sadomasochistic associations, big from the late 1970s on.

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Leather cover / cap
noun

The leather cap — traditionally reserved for Tops or experienced bottoms, and you never touch another man's.

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Red hanky 18+
noun

Mature content — open to view.

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Sir
noun

Honorific for a dominant or experienced leatherman — earned, not assumed, within community protocol.

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Safeword
noun

The agreed word that instantly pauses or stops a scene, no questions asked.

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Mummification
noun

Full-body bondage that wraps a person completely immobile.

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