Topping from the bottom
When the Bottom tries to steer the scene against the agreed power dynamic.
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The submissive partner trying to run the show — directing, correcting or controlling the Top in ways that cut against the dynamic both people signed up for. Usually meant as a mild dig: you said you'd hand over control, now you're micromanaging. Crucial distinction: this is about overstepping an agreed dynamic, not the same as a Service top arrangement where the Bottom directing is the whole point. The community argues plenty about where communication ends and topping from the bottom begins.
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