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Relationship Slang

Relationship slang decoded — simp, red flag, green flag, the ick and dating-life terms with real meanings. Properly sourced.

220 words

situationship exit
noun

The act of leaving an undefined relationship.

#dating#relationships#breakup#ambiguous
lesbian bed death
phrase

The stereotype that sex fizzles out in long-term lesbian relationships.

#lesbian#wlw#lgbtq#relationships
Drafting Season
noun

The scouting period before cuffing season when people size up prospects.

#dating#relationships#seasonal#scouting
situationship anxiety
noun

The unease of being in an undefined, label-less romance.

#dating#relationships#undefined#emotional
Ick
noun

A sudden feeling of disgust toward someone you were attracted to, often triggered by something small.

#gen-z#dating#internet#relationships
negging
verb

Giving backhanded compliments to undermine someone's confidence.

#dating#relationships#manipulation#insult
smokeshow
noun

An exceptionally, strikingly attractive person.

#dating#relationships#attractive#compliment
demisexual
adjective

Feeling sexual attraction only after a strong emotional bond forms.

#dating#relationships#attraction#identity
loml
noun

'Love of my life' — sincerely or ironically your ideal person.

#dating#relationships#affection#acronym
Green Flag
noun

A positive trait, behavior, or sign that suggests someone is trustworthy, healthy, or worth investing time in.

#gen-z#dating#internet#relationships
jaina firme
phrase

A fine/loyal girlfriend (Caló)

#spanish#spanglish#latino#chicano
bebecita
noun

Baby (term for a girlfriend/attractive girl)

#spanish#spanglish#latino#relationships
third wheel
noun

An extra person tagging along with a couple.

#dating#relationships#awkward#couples
missus
noun

One's wife or girlfriend.

#australian#aussie#family#relationships
Fauci-ing
verb

Turning down a date over lax pandemic safety precautions.

#dating#relationships#pandemic#safety
swipe left
phrase

To reject someone on a dating app.

#dating#relationships#dating-app#rejection
cuffed up
adjective

Firmly settled into a committed relationship.

#dating#relationships#committed#coupling
unmatch
verb

To sever an app match, removing the ability to message.

#dating#relationships#apps#mechanic
gold digger
noun

Someone who dates a person mainly for their money.

#dating#relationships#money#transactional
LTR
noun

'Long-Term Relationship', a serious committed partnership.

#dating#relationships#commitment#profiles
talking
verb

Casually getting to know someone romantically before it's official.

#dating#relationships#early stage#undefined
daterview
noun

A date that feels like a rapid-fire job interview.

#dating#relationships#awkward#first date
lockering
verb

Blowing someone off with a fake 'I have to study' excuse.

#dating#relationships#excuse#rejection
GGG 18+
adjective

Mature content — open to view.

#dating#relationships#sex#attitude
situationship red flag
noun

A warning sign specific to undefined, no-commitment romances.

#dating#relationships#undefined#warning
Talking Stage
noun

The early phase of getting to know someone romantically, before you're officially together.

#gen-z#dating#internet#relationships
Deep-Liking
verb

Liking someone's very old posts, revealing you've been scrolling far back.

#dating#relationships#social media#attention
Phubbing
verb

Snubbing the person you're with by focusing on your phone.

#dating#relationships#phone#rudeness
situationship graduate
noun

A couple that evolves a situationship into a defined relationship.

#dating#relationships#undefined#official
my person
noun

The one you're closest and most devoted to.

#dating#relationships#endearment#bond
sneaky link season 18+
noun

Mature content — open to view.

#dating#relationships#hookup#seasonal
Day Ones
phrase

The people who've been with you from the very beginning.

#gen-z#hip-hop#aave#relationships
heartthrob
noun

An attractive person who makes many hearts race.

#dating#relationships#attraction#admiration
hooking up 18+
phrase

Mature content — open to view.

#dating#relationships#casual#sex
Cloutlationship
noun

A relationship maintained mainly for social media clout.

#dating#relationships#social media#image
back burner
noun

A romantic option kept in reserve for later.

#dating#relationships#backup#options
Breadcrumbing
noun

Leading someone on with just enough attention to keep them interested, without real commitment.

#gen-z#dating#internet#relationships
monkeying
verb

Swinging straight from one relationship into the next with no gap.

#dating#relationships#rebound#overlap
horn-man 18+
noun

Mature content — open to view.

#caribbean#patois#relationships#infidelity
lovebug
noun

An affectionate nickname for a sweetheart.

#dating#relationships#endearment#cute